objection~

how if we deciding to object than agree???

objection means we deciding to state the negative statement.."no" "not" " i can't" "i won't" "i don't" and sort of it..

i fully understand that for certain situation..its just so good to object..its open up to new idea generation and help to change way of thinking..but how if--->

"i don't want to help when asked to"
"i 'm not laughing for the joke that everyone laugh"
"i don't want to have friendship when other want it"
"i'm not eating when politely invited"
"i said i can't when other invited"
" i choose not full the request when requested"
" i'm not pick up call when the others called"

and so on.....

Am i problematic??? Am i sinful to object??Am i bad to be truth???

Lately...i just found out...I must do only thing that i'm really sincere to do...and i think nothing wrong if we object...I'm the one who will answer the request anyway...in malay tradition ..at least they will say. .."buatlah..jaga hati"..how capable we are to satisfy everyone everytime???for me "buatlah..kalau rasa ikhlas"...i'm know how suffer it is to do sumthing we forced to..i will answering request or doing the favor..if there no choice other than me..itu sudah jadi fardu kifayyah anyway...just because most of time ..i'm trying to sattle my own problem till the end rather than bothering the others..so i'm really hate those who like to take advantage before trying to hard to solve their own problem...that way..now..i'm so very selfish just do only the thing i'm willing to do..i felt bad after i object..but i know..i will suffering enough if i answer it..pretend ..fake up.. hipocriet.. anyway to object and being truth is a wise choice for now...i hope so..